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Raymond shudders to think where hed be today if his social worker hadnt shipped him to Eldad Ranch back in April 1998.

Id probably be in jail right now, always in and out of jail. Thats the way my life was going, says Raymond (not his real name). Because I had no other place to go.

 Jewel Reimer and Raymond examine Eldads hydraulic wood splitter.
 MCC photo by Bruce Hildebrand |
Raymond was used to the rough streets of Winnipeg and not impressed with the prospect of spending the next couple of years at a residential treatment centre in rural southeastern Manitoba.

As a native child adopted by a white family, he had struggled with his sense of identity and belonging for years. He was in and out of group homes and in trouble with the law until he arrived at Eldad.

[The Eldad staff] and other people in my life have said I have come a long way. And I can see that too, says Raymond.

Eldad, an agency of Mennonite Central Committee Manitoba, provides an alternative to incarceration for young men who have intellectual disabilities and have been in regular, though minor, conflict with the law. Most of the residents have some kind of alcohol-related birth defect.

Instead of being incarcerated, they can live at Eldad. Its a better environment. Its a caring, nurturing place, says Jewel Reimer, who together with Addison Klassen, directs Eldad.

Eldad, Hebrew for God has loved, was launched in 1979. Currently, four men between the ages of 22 and 43 live at Eldad. Residents are referred through the court system or provincial family services department and stay for two years on average.

Much of the funding comes from the provincial government. A second non-related program provides a long-term residence for two men with more serious intellectual disabilities.

Situated on 18 acres of wooded land, Eldad Ranch has the feel of a quiet retreat centre. The four residents of the main program learn vocational skills by participating in a small firewood business, cutting and then delivering wood to various customers. Eldad also leases a sawmill to cut lumber.

Residents learn independent living skills such as cooking, budgeting and improved reading and writing skills. Positive use of leisure time is also encouraged.

We try to introduce them to activities that they might continue after they leave here, says Reimer. As well, Reimer says staff work at issues of restorative justice trying to model and teach good conflict resolution, responsibility for their community and healing in family relationships.

Raymond, 23, says a major turning point in his life was meeting his birth family, about a year ago. Since then, he has embraced his native heritage, which he says has helped ground him. He has also started his first ever part-time paying job, unloading pallets at Barkman Concrete near Steinbach, Man.

When he leaves in February 2001, he will carry with him an unexpected fondness for Eldad Ranch. Over the time Ive spent here I have come to grow and love the people here, he says.

Reimer says most residents feel an ongoing connection to Eldad after they leave. Often they choose to live near here so they can be close to us, she says.

When Reimer first started as co-director in 1995, she had high expectations for changed lives and notable accomplishments. With a growing understanding of the lifelong struggles related to fetal alcohol syndrome, she says shes no longer so idealistic.

I think my definition of success has changed. I think if residents leave Eldad and can avoid a life of crime, then weve been ultimately successful, says Reimer, adding only one former resident who left during her tenure has since served a jail term. Im hoping for all of them that they can enjoy happiness for periods in their life. Carol Thiessen, MCC Canada
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